When someone you love hurts it hurts. If I had a zillion dollars I'd dish it out to all my family and friends - I think it would save us all from lots of hurt and struggle and frustration etc. and then we could all vacation together and lunch during the week. Oh, of course there's something to be said for learning along side the lemons you get in life but let's be honest. If I gave you part of my zillion dollars you'd take it wouldn't ya? Hmmmmm... yeah, that's what I thought.